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I am wondering what sex acts/other stuff that is related to sex that folks think most folks think is manditory, and where do people get those ideas from? I'm just curious.

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thebigbadbutch
Jun. 22nd, 2006 12:50 am (UTC)
1) At least light S & M
2) Some D/s
3) FISTING (ok I haven't done that yet but my next woman better open up)
4) Hot, dirty and sweaty strap on sex
rubyphoenix
Jun. 22nd, 2006 01:15 am (UTC)
your fist will never come near me. unless it's to shut my yapper when i get out of line
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kisha
Jun. 22nd, 2006 01:58 am (UTC)
Dearest Bigbadbutch88:

Hi, marry me please?

Thx.
Kisha
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rubyphoenix
Jun. 22nd, 2006 01:10 am (UTC)
iawtc
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thewayoftheid
Jun. 22nd, 2006 01:18 am (UTC)
Word.
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gal_montag
Jun. 22nd, 2006 01:15 am (UTC)
Well, nothing, I guess. I'd say head, but there are circumstances where that ain't happening.
rubyphoenix
Jun. 22nd, 2006 01:16 am (UTC)
funky sack? yeah I hear ya.
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toodani
Jun. 22nd, 2006 01:17 am (UTC)
Seems to me that most sexual expectations come from immaturity, too much porn, and bad advice from friends.

As my partners have gotten older i've noticed that they're a lot more open to going beyond the stereotypical boundaries. What's mandatory for me is that he be willing to have fun. I tend to laugh a lot during sex with the lights on, out of nervousness, so if he can't laugh back it just kills the mood. He has to listen to direction, and he has to attempt to make ME happy during the session. All of the rest is negotiable.
jette
Jun. 22nd, 2006 02:09 am (UTC)
I don't have a mandatory act, but the person doing the act had better be cute, smart and fun.
daveanthony
Jun. 22nd, 2006 02:29 am (UTC)
Icon.



Ok, it doesn't have to be that position, but the act in question...
Reciprocation is only mandatory if she knows what she's doin. I'd rather not get it than get it bad.
jamara125
Jun. 22nd, 2006 02:37 am (UTC)
OFF TOPIC

is that the maxwell...... photo shoot from essence..looks like it..sorry im a geeky photographer and i remember photo lay outs from magazines
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ponygirl118
Jun. 22nd, 2006 02:45 am (UTC)
Whatever ye want to recieve, ye better be willing to do.
kittikattie
Jun. 22nd, 2006 05:10 am (UTC)
Cosigned.
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bitsofmymind
Jun. 22nd, 2006 03:48 am (UTC)
-Oral....although I'd really rather give than receive. It's just not my thing.
-Dirty talk
-A little S&M...nothing too extreme, but enough to make it interesting
thiscoinferno
Jun. 22nd, 2006 03:51 am (UTC)
FROT!



I'm a damn fool
i_dreamed_i_was
Jun. 22nd, 2006 05:35 am (UTC)
Mmmmm...
Must be openminded and willing to experiment. I.e., everything I suggest need not be agreed to (I guess), but nothing I suggest can be met with "Eeeeeewwwwwwwww!!!"
blaquerose
Jun. 22nd, 2006 11:08 am (UTC)
Re: Mmmmm...
::drools at icon::
::dies::
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kittylarock
Jun. 22nd, 2006 06:57 am (UTC)
um...how about protection, communication, intimacy? or is that asking too much?
1999
Jun. 22nd, 2006 07:36 am (UTC)
lol
espnchick1920
Jun. 22nd, 2006 11:53 am (UTC)
What's mandatory?
HEAD!!! Without a doubt, you want some ass from me...you better have a LOOOOOONG tongue fight with my nether regions. That didn't come from any type of societal or media pressure. It comes from experience.

You want a next time? At least three (preferrably more) orgasms. It shouldn't be hard if you know what you're doing. If I can make myself cum without touching myself, you should be able to do at least three times that with your actions.

A little dirty talk goes a long way if you know how to say it right. If you call me a slut bitch like you're trying to degrade me, then I will get up off my knees and fight you. If you call me a slut bitch like you're really turned on by whatever I'm doing, and you make it sound like the idea of me being a slut bitch really turns you on...then you can call me whatever nasty, vile name you want...
lindito
Jun. 22nd, 2006 06:10 pm (UTC)
Re: What's mandatory?
A little dirty talk goes a long way if you know how to say it right. If you call me a slut bitch like you're trying to degrade me, then I will get up off my knees and fight you. If you call me a slut bitch like you're really turned on by whatever I'm doing, and you make it sound like the idea of me being a slut bitch really turns you on...then you can call me whatever nasty, vile name you want...

let the church say AMEN!

the problem with being a dude that most people think are going to rob them is that when i'm trying to get a dude to bone me, they are afraid. lol. i have gotten so much ass from so-called tops it's not even funny anymore. (and a lot of dick has run from me because they were afraid that i would try to bone them. which was probably true, i probably would try, but i still was trying to get poked.)

but something that is really hot is when a dude comes up to me and lets me know from the word go that he is going to stick me. and gets really rough and calls me a slut bitch or whatever. (and the *only* time that anyone can call me a bitch without me removing some of their teeth with my fist is if they just so happen to have eight or so inches of dick stuck in my ass.... )
Re: What's mandatory? - espnchick1920 - Jun. 22nd, 2006 10:56 pm (UTC) - Expand
bonbhan
Jun. 22nd, 2006 03:31 pm (UTC)
Nothing. I'm proud to say that I can be aroused and satisfied by many feelings, smells, tastes, and positions. Variety is the spice of life, after all.
lindito
Jun. 22nd, 2006 06:05 pm (UTC)
from the too much information file:

my boyfriend has ten inches of dick, but really doesn't like to use it. getting dick from him is... difficult sometimes. i practically have to tie him down to get it. one time i was ready to fuck him until he couldn't walk but then i saw how hard it was before i slipped it to him and decided to just ride it for dear life instead.

i've debated asking him if i can have a young piece on the side for just dick, one that didn't even speak english or afrikaans just to bone me. i should have asked him for a threeway for my birthday yesterday. hm.

he says he doesn't try to bone me because my downstroke is so good that he almost always comes without even touching his dick.

(this is true. and because he's so big, i can give him head *while* i'm boning him. drives him crazy. and people have been telling me that i could lay pipe real good since i was 13, so i know he's not saying it just to hear himself talk. that's why i got so many damn stalkers. note to some of you muscleheads out there: if you are wondering why you see some hottie sweating some fat guy, it might be because the fat guy actually knows how to THROW DOWN. some food for thought...)

the mandatory things (besides giving up the dick):

a) give me head. plenty of head.
b) toss my salad, motherfucker.
c) be willing to tie me up and whip me every once in a while. (the senegalese dude was really into that, but this guy... he's just too submissive to entertain it. but i'm working on it. he has seen my whip, paddle, leg irons, handcuffs and harnesses, but he is still afraid to even touch them. )
d) occasional 3somes arent that bad. but never in our own house, so the trick never knows where we live if we blow his mind. (given that both of us have stalkers from our single days, i can only imagine the kind of stalking that would happen if someone had BOTH OF US at the same time.)
e) be willing to get fisted. i'm all with bigbadbutch on that one. dudes i've fisted have cum like fountains. don't knock it til you've tried it. the first time i myself was fisted was during the hottest threesome i ever had... on my 18th birthday. (i'm in my mid-30s now) i was already so had that the brother had FOUR FINGERS in me before i even noticed what was going on.


i know that some of y'all are a bit... flustered now. but hey, i was asked, so i only tell the truth...
espnchick1920
Jun. 22nd, 2006 10:58 pm (UTC)
this is true. and because he's so big, i can give him head *while* i'm boning him.

I think I'm aroused now. Wait...ummmm, yep. I'd REALLY like to see that. Can I come to South Africa to walk the beach and watch you and your man have sex???
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